Best Sex Toys For Couples To Increase Connection And Pleasure

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Having a partner certainly does not mean you will have monotonous sex. Breaking out of your comfort zone can be an exciting way to spice up your sex life and can make you feel more connected and close to one another.

Whether you are a couple in a long-distance relationship looking for exciting ways to stay intimate or are looking to freshen up things in the bedroom – we have selected the best sex toys for couples with the expert advice from Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship editor at sexual wellness brand Lovehoney.

Annabelle says: “The best advice I can give to couples thinking of trying out sex toys is to talk about it first. Work out what excites you both and what might make your sex life more exhilarating. Be honest with each other and establish just what is working for you and what is not.”

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If you feel a bit nervous about initiating adding sex toys to your sex life. Start off small with a bullet vibrator or Lovehoney’s Tease Finger Vibrator. It will add mounts of pleasure and will not be too intimidating. However, if you are a seasoned toy user, then let your fantasies run wild and share your different ideas with your partner.

Annabelle says ‘It’s a fact that around three-quarters of women struggle to orgasm through intercourse alone.’ So if that sounds like you as a couple, you can do lot to improve that figure and ensure that you are having a shared orgasm together during lovemaking.

‘Upping the foreplay and experimenting with new techniques is the best way to close that orgasm gap and ensure you BOTH enjoy sex together. One simple step you can take is to invest in some lubricant. It is a myth that lube is only for women who struggle to self-lubricate, particularly older women.’

‘Lube is great for couples of all ages, and sex is so much better when it is slippery, particularly if your partner can go on for a long time and create friction and soreness.’

So, let’s take a look at the best sex toys for couples that are perfect as Valentine’s Day gifts for men and women. Annabelle has provided us with some exclusive expert picks of some from Lovehoney below. Plus, Grazia has included some from Ann Summers, Coco de Mer and Etsy, so you can start experimenting.

Annabelle says that all of her recommendations are fun to use as a couple. ‘Some are designed to be used together, whereas others are even more fun when you get your partner to use the toy on you.’

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert for sexual wellness brand Lovehoney, said: “This lets you share mind-blowing vibrations during sex. Ideal for a heterosexual couple looking to harmonise their pleasure and play in new, intimate ways. The innovative squeeze remote matches the vibration intensity to the strength of your grip. Use with the free We-Connect App for long-distance play no matter the distance between you.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
App-Controlled and remote-controlled
Extra powerful and extra quiet
Waterproof: Submersible
Length: 3.5 inches

Sex Toys For Couples

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

“This set is great if you are a young couple maybe living in shared accommodation and you want to explore sex toys together without disturbing your housemates,” Annabelle tells us.
“You get three high-quality vibrators – the classic vibrator, the bended G-spot vibrator and the bullet vibrator which is great for clitoral stimulation and is discreet and small and can be carried in a handbag without any notice. They are at a great price, and you can have a lot of fun playing with them together without anyone else in the house knowing.”
Features
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Multiple speeds
Material: Hard plastic
Extra quiet

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Kit

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

“Sex toy kits are a great way for couples to explore the world of sex toys together,” says Annabelle. “You get a big range of products – often at a big discount if you bought them individually – and you can try each out and find out what you like and don’t like.”

Coco de Mer Pleasure No.4 The Remote Egg vibrator toy

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CREDIT: Selfridges

Presented in a vegan leather travel case embossed with rose gold detailing, this luxury toy is ergonomically curved and comes with a remote control and wireless egg with ten vibration settings.
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
Remote-controlled
Waterproof
Length: 16.5cm

Rose Quartz Spherical Yoni Wand

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CREDIT: Etsy

Massaging and exploring Yoni can be a healing sexual journey as well as wonderful pure self-pleasure or together as a couple. Made with a lovely pink colour of Rose Quartz, this wand carries feminine energy that encourages compassion and love. Western Tantra practionners consider yoni wands to be a more healing and spiritual sex toy that provides pleasure.
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Material: Rose quartz
Length: 7.5 inches

Lovehoney Tease Finger Vibrator

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

Annabelle said: “Inexpensive and fun, this finger vibrator is a great way to make foreplay even more enticing. Take it in turns to wear the finger and trace sensual sensations all over each other’s erogenous zones. It works well for solo-use, too, if you just want to get off quickly.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Single speed
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Submersible
Length: 2.5 inches

We-Vibe Unite 2 Remote Control Rechargeable Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

Annabelle said: “This is a great toy to take with you if you are going away for a dirty weekend. It is super quiet and discreet (you don’t have to worry about room service hearing the rumblings through the door). The remote control means either of you can be in charge of directing the pleasure – it’s always fun to take it in turns.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
App-Controlled and remote-controlled
Extra powerful and extra quiet
Waterproof: Splashproof
Length: 3 inches

Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Remote Control Strap-On Pegging Kit

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

Penetrative pleasure just got a whole lot more exciting with this three-piece vibrating pegging kit, perfect for couples of all sexual orientations. With up to three different vibration speeds and seven varied patterns, the rechargeable vibrating bullet can be remote-controlled for hands-free fun.
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: 3 speeds
Material: Silicone
Rechargeable, hollow and remote-controlled
Waterproof: Submersible
Length: 6.5 inches

Ann Summers Vibrating Anal Plug

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CREDIT: Ann Summers

Looking to try out anal play? A butt plug is a way forward. You may want to ease yourself in with an intro kit to being with, but then you can up your game with this vibrating anal plug. It can be used for multiple stimulations, and the tapered head makes for easy insertion.
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: 10 speeds
Material: Silicone
Length: 3 inches
Battery operated

Self Love Massage Wand

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CREDIT: Ann Summers

This Self Love Massage Wand has eight vibration functions with three intensity levels; explore all these together during foreplay or as part of a solo session.

Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
Comes with a cotton storage bag

Lovehoney Lust Remote Control Wearable Couple's Vibrator

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

“This discreet, wearable couple’s vibe bends to fit the body’s contours for numerous play possibilities,” Annabelle says. “It’s completely wearable during penetrative vaginal sex for shared sensations. Depending on how you bend, it provides stimulation for the clitoris, G-spot, penis or balls.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
App-Controlled and remote-controlled
Hands-free and travel lock
Length: 6 inches

Moregasm+ Couples Ring

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CREDIT: Ann Summers

Couples can make the bedroom more exhilarating with this Moregasm+ Couples Ring which helps satisfy both him and her, sending low-frequency vibrations until climax.
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: 10 settings
Material: Silicone
Waterproof

Sqweel Go Rechargeable Oral Sex Simulator

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CREDIT: Amazon

Annabelle said: “I love a good Sqweel! The Sqweel was the very first oral sex simulator on the market. It was created by a Lovehoney customer who won the company’s very first Design A Sex Toy Competition. He wanted to recreate the delicious feeling of oral sex as accurately as he could and he came up with the prototype of this unique little machine that does the trick nicely.
“Lovehoney immediately knew that he had created something completely new and they went straight into production. There have been several Sqweels since that first one and each new one just gets better and better. Be sure to use with lots of lubricant.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Submersible
Length: 3 inches

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We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Vibrating Love Ring

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CREDIT: Lovehoney

Annabelle said: “This rumbling ring is worn around the penis during intercourse to enhance couple’s play It fits snugly in place for comfortable wear, thanks to the custom-fit link. The remote control has a range of three metres or you can control it with the app from anywhere.”
Features
Allergens: Latex-free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Material: Silicone
App-Controlled
Waterproof: Submersible

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How to introduce sex toys in a relationship

Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert with sexual wellness brand Lovehoney, explains that the idea all women can orgasm through intercourse is the ‘biggest and most damaging myth about sex’.

She recommends adding sex toys to your repertoire, ‘They are a great way to stimulate the clitoris and improve women’s chances of orgasming, which is why they are a fun way to improve sexual happiness and close that orgasm gap.’

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Buying sex toys does not have to be expensive; Annabelle advises starting with something simple with a clitoral vibrator like Lovehoney Tease Finger Vibrator. ‘ This is great fun to use on your own – or even more fun if your partner takes the lead’.

Annabelle explains that the purpose of sex toys in any type of relationship is, ‘To increase connection and pleasure, as well as add to the sexual experience within a couple, not detract from it. Toys are sexual enhancements, like ketchup on a hot dog.’

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