Woman who ditched Sainsbury’s for porn career has to have sex rota at home

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A woman who quit her job at Sainsbury’s for a porn career says she has so much sex at work she has had to get help in her personal life – with a sex rota. Jess West, 35, swapped her job as a Sainsbury’s cheese deli worker for her dream job as a porn star 15 years ago.

She met partner Demetri, 50, on set in 2014 and filmed X-rated scenes together nearly every day. But despite being loved-up, Jess says their careers in the sex industry has taken a toll on their own sex life.

The couple say they have been forced to get a helping hand from a unicorn – single girls who join in sexual relations with couples – after struggling to get in the mood under their own roof. The pair rotate a handful of young women throughout the course of the year.

Despite getting an extra person, Jess says she would never have sex with another person outside of work unless with Demetri. “You have that separation that work is work. Sex on camera is nothing like it is at home”, Jess said.

“At work you are conscious of where the cameras are and doing the best positions for the viewer. It’s positions you would not normally do. You’re doing positions for camera not for yourself.

“It’s often very uncomfortable physically demanding and a far cry from the joys of home sex in your bedroom with the lights off with no one watching. Also sex on camera when filming can take a few hours where as sex at home can be as long or short as we like.

“It’s not so much we’re tired of sex because of what we do. But it’s harder to get into the mood for sex. It was actually me who suggested the idea of the unicorn. It’s a good way to spice it up and have a bit of fun.

Jess West with partner Demetri (Jam Press)

“And it’s been great. I think because of the job we do I found I was very comfortable with having sex with other women with my man.

“A unicorn symbolises divine love, grace beauty and purity and we all have to be on the same page. There’s no jealousy. It’s just enjoying each other and then after we have all had are fun everything stays the same.”

Demitri added: “When people watch porn there’s a misconception on how long sex should be. Sex on camera is a fantasy. The scene people might be watching could be going on for two minutes but to get that two minutes will require 40 minutes of work.

“My libido is definitely affected. It’s not the same excitement I used to get.”

Jess says despite both her and Demetri doing the exact same job, she has received more shaming and hurtful comments. Jess added: “People have a hard idea getting their head around it’s not cheating.

“For me as a female I get called all sorts of name and trolled daily for doing what I do where as Demetri get called legend and hero for doing the exact same thing. I also get looked at as a piece of meat and get called easy.

“Whereas Demetri gets looked at as a proper guy.”

Despite the strain on their relationship and stick they get, Jess says she still loves what she does. She added: “We love what we do and have fun doing it.”


https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/uk-news/woman-who-ditched-sainsburys-porn-24002897

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