Sainsbury’s worker who quit cheese counter for porn career shares realities of sex work

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An ex-Sainsbury’s worker who quit her job at a cheese counter to pursue a porn career has shared the realities of working in the sex industry. Jess West, 35, has opened up about how her work in the adult film industry has affected her personal life since quitting her supermarket job 15 years ago.

Jess’ partner Demetri, 50, also works in the sex industry. The couple met on set in 2014 and filmed X-rated scenes together nearly every day but since falling in love, they’ve had to separate their professional and personal lives.

After struggling to get in the mood away from work, the couple said they got their sex life back on track with the help of single girls who are willing to join in with a couple’s sexual relations – also known as ‘unicorns’. The pair say they have sex with a handful of different women throughout the course of the year.

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Despite getting an extra person, Jess says she would never have sex with another person outside of work unless with Demetri, Wales Online reports. She explained: “You have that separation that work is work.

“Sex on camera is nothing like it is at home. At work you are conscious of where the cameras are and doing the best positions for the viewer.

“It’s positions you would not normally do. You’re doing positions for camera not for yourself.

Jess West with partner Demetri

“It’s often very uncomfortable physically demanding and a far cry from the joys of home sex in your bedroom with the lights off with no one watching. Also sex on camera when filming can take a few hours where as sex at home can be as long or short as we like.

“It’s not so much we’re tired of sex because of what we do. But it’s harder to get into the mood for sex. It was actually me who suggested the idea of the unicorn. It’s a good way to spice it up and have a bit of fun.

“And it’s been great. I think because of the job we do I found I was very comfortable with having sex with other women with my man.

“A unicorn symbolises divine love, grace beauty and purity and we all have to be on the same page. There’s no jealousy. It’s just enjoying each other and then after we have all had are fun everything stays the same.”

Demitri added: “When people watch porn there’s a misconception on how long sex should be. Sex on camera is a fantasy. The scene people might be watching could be going on for two minutes but to get that two minutes will require 40 minutes of work.

“My libido is definitely affected. It’s not the same excitement I used to get.”

Jess says despite both her and Demetri doing the exact same job, she has received more shaming and hurtful comments. Jess added: “People have a hard idea getting their head around it’s not cheating.

“For me as a female I get called all sorts of name and trolled daily for doing what I do where as Demetri get called legend and hero for doing the exact same thing. I also get looked at as a piece of meat and get called easy.

“Whereas Demetri gets looked at as a proper guy.” Despite the strain on their relationship and stick they get, Jess says she still loves what she does, adding: “We love what we do and have fun doing it.”


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